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Old 04-08-2009, 09:36 PM
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Default Mahirap Ang Nasa Ibang Bansa...

OFW ako dati pero mahirap pala buhay kong nandon kana sa ibang bansa.

I was signed a contract last 2 year ago. But unfortunately i got a lot of suffering with my Employer and I realized its like a "Ball" ang ating buhay.

Sometimes Swertihin ka at Sometimes Hindi ka Swertihin.

Mga Bro. at Sis give some advise.....
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OFW ako dati pero mahirap pala buhay kong nandon kana sa ibang bansa.

I was signed a contract last 2 year ago. But unfortunately i got a lot of suffering with my Employer and I realized its like a "Ball" ang ating buhay.

Sometimes Swertihin ka at Sometimes Hindi ka Swertihin.

Mga Bro. at Sis give some advise.....

Hi wratt lion! musta? alam mo kung anong tawag dyan...... LIFE
I was working as a DH for 4 years. i know exactly kung anong ibig mong sabihin na "hindi swertehin". Its not desame job like what you have but its desame emotion. thank God, after 4 years felt in hell nakakaahon din.
ngayon i worked for one of the biggest company here in kuwait as a secretary for almost 2 years.
Sabi nga nila....If it is Dark... there's always a light.

Wish you the best luck..
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Old 04-22-2009, 07:14 AM
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Default My advise, dont give up, stay focus and move on

Hi Bro. & Sis,


Its true for what you have experienced. Sa mga nangingibang bayan merong sinuswerte meron namang minamalas. What's important is whatever happens, dont give up, stay focus and continue to move on. There's always good light at the end of the tunnel.

Sabi nga ng isang nag comment "that's life". Through the years I have also experienced ups and downs and I want to share this experience of mine to you. I entitled it " The Parable of the uproated Mango Tree"

Just compare your life to an uproated mango tree by a strong typhoon. After falling down, all of its leaves meltdown, it will stop for a while to bear fruits. However, the moment its roots gained a little momentum, new branches and leaves will sprout again, bear flowers and fruits. Life is also like this, dont give up, stay focus and continue to move on like an aproated mango tree.

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Good day! everyday sa lahat,Bro,Marquez what a nice advice and share you give,thank you.Im here at Qatar,and now I realize that its really hard,mahirap mapalayo sa mga mahal sa buhay,lalo na sa asawa't mga anak.ang sarap pakinggan ng nasa abroad,ngayon ko nalaman kung gano magsakripisyo para sa mga mahal sa buhay,pag my problema sila dun,oo nga at sa financial na bagay ay nakakapagpadala tayo,pero pagdating sa emotion,tinitiis na lang natin ang ating nararamdaman.pag my sakit ang ating anak,dasal na lang ng taimtim at palaging lumapit sa Panginoon,pag may problema.D nya tayo pababayaan,gaya ng mensahe sa "Footprints in the sand"sabi nga "beyond the clouds,the sun is still shining.huwag lang tayong mkakalimot tumawag sa nasa taas araw-araw,masaya man tayo o malungkot.Dyan sya palagi.masuwerte ako at mabait ang aking amo dito sa Qatar,Jordanian/Palestinian,at isang mabuting Christiano.1 year and 5 months na ako d2,at malapit na din magbakasyon.God bless us all!
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Hello po, kahit saan ka pa mahirap syempre mahirap nga ang ibang bansa kasi hindi mo nakikita pamilya mo but be optimistic na lang, isipin mo na lang na you work there for them, kesa nandito ka sa pinas ang sweldo mo konti lang ang gawin mo na lang pray hard na sana matapos mo ang contract mo at umuwi ka na lang after your contract,mag ipon ng mag ipon huwag mamimili ng mamili kasi pag umuwi ka padadala mo pa iyan gastos lang dito naman marami ka mabibili. ingat na lang. God is good.
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OFW ako dati pero mahirap pala buhay kong nandon kana sa ibang bansa.

I was signed a contract last 2 year ago. But unfortunately i got a lot of suffering with my Employer and I realized its like a "Ball" ang ating buhay.

Sometimes Swertihin ka at Sometimes Hindi ka Swertihin.

Mga Bro. at Sis give some advise.....
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mahirap talaga ang buhay dito sa abroad,lalo na kung ginagawa mo ng ang lahat para mabigyan mo ng magandang buhay ang pamilya mo kahit naghihirap ka nagtiis sa lahat tapos ang sarili mo anak na wala pang 18 old ay itinatago ng bf niya quit na ako dahil ayaw namn na niyang magpakita hwag na lang magsisi sa bandang huli
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mahirap talaga ang buhay dito sa abroad,lalo na kung ginagawa mo ng ang lahat para mabigyan mo ng magandang buhay ang pamilya mo kahit naghihirap ka nagtiis sa lahat tapos ang sarili mo anak na wala pang 18 old ay itinatago ng bf niya quit na ako dahil ayaw namn na niyang magpakita hwag na lang magsisi sa bandang huli
hi perla, kamusta? lam kong nararamdaman mo bilang nanay ng anak mo.tama ka dyan,ginagawa ng mga parents ang lahat alang ala sa mga mahal na anak..but!never ever say quit!dahil she's always your daughter 4evr.lahat ng taong nasa taas mo, may tama!dat's our destiny and u have to accept it.It's GODs wil but pls don't lost hope.kaya sya nagtatago dahil di nya kayang humarap sa mabait na nanay na katulad mo.may takot sya sayo.yaan mo nalang muna at uuwi't uuwi din yan sa pinanggalingan nya.naku ha drama ako huhuhu.
anyway Perlz, do u have your own thread?dun sa intro?para daming dadalaw at maaliw ka sa mga kasamahan natin dito at para maalis ang lungkot at problema mo.and formost,thanks for sharing your problem.
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mahirap talaga ang buhay dito sa abroad,lalo na kung ginagawa mo ng ang lahat para mabigyan mo ng magandang buhay ang pamilya mo kahit naghihirap ka nagtiis sa lahat tapos ang sarili mo anak na wala pang 18 old ay itinatago ng bf niya quit na ako dahil ayaw namn na niyang magpakita hwag na lang magsisi sa bandang huli
Magandang araw sa yo Ms.Perla,nabasa ko ang problema mo tungkol sa anak mo na wala pang 18,kung tutuusin,kung ibase natin sa ating batas sa Pinas,malaki ang habol mo dahil ayon sa ating batas,under the age of 18,mas my karapatan pa din ang magulang sa anak,kung di ako nagkakamali.pwede mong ihabla ang bf nya na nagtatago sa kanya.kahit pa pumayag sya.wala pa sya sa tamang edad kung tutuusin.saang bansa ka ba kbayan?huwag ka lang mawalan ng tiwala sa nasa itaas.magdasal ka ng taimtim na mabuksan ang isipan ng anak mo at ng bf nya.lahat tayo ay my kanya kanyang problema,ako man ay naghihirap din ang kalooban d2 sa Qatar,dasal ng dasal na lang palagi.God bless kbayan.
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Mahirap talaga yung malayo ka sa family mo. After work, yun bang you are alone in the house, that is the time when you feel kung ano talaga ang ibig sabihin ng "loneliness". But you need to cope with it. Wala namang magandang trabaho sa Pinas...
Maybe I can share with you what I discovered to cope:
I try to wake up early. As in, 1 hour advance before my usual waking time. Then, I pray. I think it is really good dahil early mornings (about 5:00 am), it is still quiet and the world is still sleeping so wala pa yung mga daily life disturbances. When I pray, it is not only to ask for something. I start with thanking HIM for this new day. Every new day is really a gift from God. It is a blessing most people take for granted. Then I ask for forgiveness for my sins. I am human after all and I am not a saint...
I have the "Companion" book for the whole year and I read the readings for the day. I must admit that when I started this, I could not understand most. Lately though, I am getting thru the readings. In fact, I am looking forward to the ritual and it is fast becoming a habit.
Come to think of it, kung kelan ako nalayo at naging lonely, doon ko nasimulan na makilala ang Diyos...I hope I can continue this...
God bless us all.
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Makasali na nga po d2 sa usapan nyo, matagal tagal na rin na di ako nag paparticipate sa forum. Para sa akin ano, wala ng hihirap pa sa buhay ay yong wala kang TRABAHO. Yan ang pinakamahirap sa lahat, kung may trabaho kayo sa Pinas man o sa labas ng bansa, wag kayong magreklamo bagkus magpasalamat na lang kayo.
Yan lang po!
Mabuhay tayong lahat.
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